he sounds like he defo has issues that he aint dealing with and hes taking them out on you.
screw being 10lbs overweight. youve had 2 kids. your gonna put on a little.
if he said he would divorce you if you didnt give him another kid, thats just being, well. a jerk. its up to you too if you have another kid. not just him. and to then have a go at you when u got preg? thats rediculous. tell him he needs to get over himself and sort out his own issues. apart from anything, no man finds a stick sexy.
you guys deserve to be treated better. i think you girlies are probably very sexy. and the men are just being. well. bumholes.
take care girlies.
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