I have been specific with plans and they all still react the same way. It's so frustrating! If I offered to plan things for our other friends birthday, they would still react the same way. They wouldn't help me plan a thing. They'd only confirm that they'd be there. And they'd mostly come because they both like that woman who's birthday is coming up. One of them has known that lady for 15 years.

The other one flatters her and is always asking about her and talking about her and feeling sorry for her since she has gone through a lot over the past few years. She never ever asks me how I'm doing though. She even looks a bit annoyed when I start talking sometimes. It's very rude and upsetting. She likes to dominate the conversation and focus things on herself and the other women in the group.