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Originally Posted by TunedOut
Tisha,
You have more influence than you give yourself credit for. IMO, all of us are influenced by the people and information we spend the most time with. IMO, many times, women who have been taking care of children, find themselves trying to figure out "what do I want to do now?" I am just doing what easily falls into my lap and have stopped worrying about what it will be anymore. Acceptance instead of anxiety is my new mode of living. I dislike fighting and arguments.  It is what it is. |
I don’t know how realistic it is to just do what easily falls into one’s lap. Maybe when we are very very elderly and incapacitated? But even then. My dad is 83 and he does more than what just falls into his lap. My son’s in law grandpa is in his 90s and he engages in a creative hobby (to the best of his physical ability). What kind of life do you suggest for Tisha? She is young, in her 50s I think.
For sure arguing is no good. I’d say most people dislike arguing and fighting. It’s always better to not have that in life.