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Default May 12, 2021 at 06:25 PM
 
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
Pete Walker, M.A. Psychotherapy

Pete Walker, M.A. Psychotherapy

I found Pete Walker’s website through my googling, searching for answers. I think he added the Fawn response to the other F’s.

I think my h ran out the door so I didn’t because he is trying so hard to show me his value, like I can’t live without him. I know it sounds strange, but that’s what that was about. It’s ridiculous, because I do not feel at all like I secretly wanted him to do the errand. I thought it would be a nice break for me to get out of the house tbh. But he functions at this level of anxiety. He is overly doting in some ways but will not simply engage me in the relationship I need. Like he overly shows he takes care of us to compensate for how he doesn’t in the way that matters to me. And why can’t he? He just can’t. I’m not angry at him because he’s not capable. I really need to just accept it and learn to disengage from my obsessive wanting it.

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