@Skeezyks:

Thanks for another thoughtful reply! Glad your med combo is working for you. Yes, separating med-caused symptoms from other-caused symptoms is a challenge. I'm meeting with my doctor of Monday over the phone to try and tease out some of the subtleties. Sorry you struggle with gender-identity issues. Yes, being thin is androgynous. I had anorexia for a year when i was fourteen and i had no breasts or menstruation. Glad your wife keeps you from wasting away. Yay wives!

@TishaBuv:

Sorry you had that binge and feel bad. I've been in that boat nth times these last 25 years. One thing i heard that helped was: one bad meal does not ruin a whole day of healthy eating and one bad day does not ruin a whole weak of healthy eating. We all eff-up from time-to-time. Have you tried the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) supports? They offer phone, chat and text support. The link is in the Welcome Stickies at the top of this forum. I hope my words have helped in some minor way, hate to see you suffer!