Well, you said he was unfaithful, right? Did he have a physical relationship with this woman? If he did then that was wrong. If he didn't and it was just talking/walking then he was not unfaithful to you. He just kept it from you.

I know that in my 35 years of marriage that I have been tempted many times, caught too. I have been faithful for over 25 years but,.Ii do counsel with several women and outsiders would think it was an affair. I have love in my heart for other women. It is pure and clean.

I think we as a society are really getting paranoid. If a married person so much as speaks to another of the opposite sex we jump to conclusions. It really is sad.

Just my opinion.