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Originally Posted by jesyka
I often get ignored in the group, and that's been happening almost since we started hanging out in the group. I'm an introvert and two of the women are extroverts. They all have more in common with each other than they do with me. I'm not jealous, I'm just stating facts.
What should I say to my friends without upsetting them? If they don't change, I think I'll end my friendship with all of them soon as I'm sick of this. I'm a good friend and I don't deserve to be dismissed and ignored. To make matters worse, they often give me no answer back for days when I try to make plans.
It's like no answer means no. To not even say no is rude I think. When they finally say yes, it takes a few days to get an answer all of the time. I know that people get busy, are not sure of things, but this is to much! All the time? I feel disrespected like I'm their last option for when they have nothing better to do.
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I agree that if they ignore you then that's no good. People do get busy but it's disrespectful to not answer, yes. Do you have to keep nagging them to answer you or do they answer just a bit slowly, with a bit of delay?
If you try to talk to them, be assertive, constructive, avoid drama and use positive emotions rather than negative ones. That's quite general, I know, but if you have a specific message you put together, you can share and get suggestions about it from people here.