I am so thankful you therapist made sure you were safe and made sure there was no added stress for you. I would have felt awkward and probably tried to resist because I would feel horrible for causing her extra work and feeling like an inconvenience. However, I would also be appreciate and cared for.

Long term T once offered that was WAY beyond normal boundaries and it is felt awkward. She talked me into it and told me why. She also reminded me that she had always said if she offered something, she wanted to do it. She would never offer something that she did not want to do. So we took her up on the offer. We were really appreciate and it made a very difficult situation much easier for out family.