Magnate
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May 14, 2021 at 08:43 PM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
If it is you who ‘destroys relationships’, you can learn skills to stop sabotaging yourself.
In my experience, it was the other person who destroyed the relationship and it hurt me incredibly deeply. It wasn’t my doing, it was theirs!
I have had long term intimate relationships, but my marriage is terribly rocky. I can’t say it’s solely me with a disorder, when it’s them being hurtful and unreasonable. My expectations were completely healthy and reasonable.
I got a diagnosis due to my extremely emotional reaction to others’ hurtful behavior toward me.
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So true. You don't have to have BPD to destroy relationships.
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