That's what I did. L and I have only started talking about sex. What I did was write my whole sexual history out and gave it to her to read in session. She sat next to me and held my hand while reading it. I don't remember too much afterwards, but I know it was a positive experience. It felt good to get it all out and to be accepted.

We also talked about vibrators one day, and that was a positive experience as well. She welcomes any topic and any questions I might have.