I've seen several T's over the years and I've never been under any doubt that each of them cared in their own way, on a very human level. Out of the four main T's, I told three that I cared about them, and each of the T's responded with the utmost respect and empathy. Two of the three T's, which includes current T, work on the premise that the relationship/attachment IS the work together and is what heals at the end of the day, so talking about the relationship is a big thing to them. It is scary for me especially with current T because our relationship has a lot more meaning and depth than with any other T but at the same time talking about it is healing, both because of what I receive from T and because it brings up what I didn't get as a child and allows me to grieve. There's nothing that feels out of bounds to talk about, even when my feelings are confused and/or deeply needy. She always accepts them. T goes above and beyond for me in various ways that I prefer to keep private, but it leaves me in no doubt that she cares deeply and that I'm truly blessed to have found someone like her.