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But now, this second go around, because he "found God" and was "so good" to me, I have no voice or power anymore. There is nothing I can hold him accountable for because he claims he's been nothing but loving and kind to me in recent months.
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1. He was abusive for years, you can hold him accountable for that.
2. Allegedly finding God at this late date doesn't change the abusive past.
3. If he were truly religious he would want and pray for what is best for you, he would not not being using God as a tool to shame you and drag you back to him.
4. You don't need to justify your decision to divorce to him or to anyone.
My suggestion is to keep moving forward on your own on the divorce, and to block and not respond to whatever methods of communication he uses to feed you his claims and demands.