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Originally Posted by RoxanneToto
Just more empty promises. I think if he truly wanted to make things right, he “coulda, shoulda, woulda” straightened himself out while you were still married; the whole finding God stuff just smacks of his desperation to keep his hooks in you.
Your power lies in knowing you can’t hold him accountable (because he doesn’t want to be!), and making your own choices based on that - choices that would benefit you, because he certainly isn’t looking out for your best interests. He may try and throw down road blocks, but there’s almost always a way around!
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Sooo true and I’ve told him this recently - how come you never made a change all that time when I made it clear that changes were needed? He can only say that losing me had an impact on him. Oh yeah and now he claims he’s found God? Come on - get real. Yes, yet another ploy.
I DO feel slightly more empowered by blocking him and by seriously limiting all contact. And walking away is helping me to feel empowered too. So maybe I’m not as disempowered as I had thought just this morning.