I know in my situation it was easier to not think about my EX because I was 2100 miles away in a new home on a farm in a new town & I realized months later I was NEVER thinking about him. I was told all my life that absence makes the heart grow fonder.... lol....I KNEW THEN that absence was the absolute best thing I ever did. Now only time I think about him is when I am still dealing with the legal battles & the financial things he has done that are still screwing me up financially. The rest of the time though my wonderful environment fills up my thoughts.
You will get to that point & the mindfulness you are doing to redirect your thoughts is great
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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