He bought me a chocolate pie and offers to pay. So, when I need him to pay, I will. So far I am not worried about it. Yes, I should get him to pay more but for now, I am not hurting financially and am not counting who pays for what. My father never bought my mother flowers nor chocolates but stayed around for over 60 years with her. They love each other by taking care of each other. He works while she keeps house. I know these type of arrangements are of my parents' generation. I am not really into flowers, chocolates, gifts that are meaningless. I just want him to stick around and be a man to me. Yes, one day I expect him to care for me as I am caring for him. I think this is not unexpected if I take care of his needs while I can. I don't think he is a bad man. He is a little male chauvinistic but I don't mind. I really like him for now. He is not ideal but is ideal for me.