I'm sorry about that. I ran into the lecturing too sometimes before but a lot of people have been nice and supportive on here. It's really about the other person, not you, if they are so easily critical like that.

And I think there's a lot of "negative posts" on here, and everyone can decide if they will read such threads or not, so it's stupid and unfair to try and blame you for it. I've responded to "negative threads" and I've had people respond to some of my "negative threads" too. I hope you'll feel better about this over time.

And yeah with your husband, it could be mental health issues, I was half joking. I think it's in general harder coping if you (general you) only have access to online relationships, that's just my experience and psychology says the same. It's just a lot more stressful mentally and emotionally too. So I hope you can find people IRL too over time, if you want to. I personally am really sick of online relationships stuff, I did it for too long at one time in my life. I don't mind these support places and stuff, because these are international forums and they have an actual purpose but otherwise if I can meet someone IRL in my city then I don't want to bother with having only an online relationship with the person. I find it's too unnatural and ungrounded and stuff for me. I really prefer doing fun activities together IRL, it just makes me feel more grounded in the whole relationship. I took a while to figure that out though : / I don't know if this is helpful.

I don't really get that drama either, right. Was she an online friend for 5 years or an IRL friend? Did she ever try and block you like that or do drama regularly? Was that guy like the love of her life? Did the guy say/do something to affect her judgment? I really don't think it was your fault if she did drama and blocking like that. People are responsible for ensuring they interact in a constructive way rather than the drama stuff.... And sometimes they manipulate others to create drama so your friend could have even been manipulated if it was out of character for her.

About your compliment, it sounds fine to me, but maybe due to his bad mood your husband read it as some insinuation/implying that you don't like his looks at other times.