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Old May 19, 2021, 11:38 AM
Anonymous41462
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@mssweatypalms:

Welcome aboard! Jump in, the water is warm!

@Soupe du jour's question:

The only therapists available to me, being Canadian and too rich to afford free therapy and too poor to pay for it myself, are para-professionals at community organizations.

They tend to be well-meaning women who have just read the same self-help books and watched the same TED Talks i have years ago.

They charge on a sliding scale at least but still i don't need to pay $45 when i can read David Burns' "Feeling Good" (CBT) as easily as they can.

I also find they're full of gimmicky mnemonics and other nonsense and just basically lacking in the expertise i'm looking for.

My question:

If you're female, are you comfortable in skimpy clothing or do you worry it's attracting the WRONG kind of attention?

I wore a skimpy sundress to the grocery store this morning and i'm just not comfortable with my breasts so exposed.

I got out one of these giant man's white dress shirts i favor for Summers to protect my fair skin from the sun and am wearing it over the sundress. That way i can take the shirt off once i'm in the secluded dog-park and have privacy.

I also have the grocery delivery man arriving soon and if i have a skimpy sundress on he might get the wrong idea.

Sigh!

The problems of being female!

Last edited by Anonymous41462; May 19, 2021 at 12:03 PM.
Thanks for this!
mssweatypalms