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I believe that actions speak louder than words in most cases. You can't believe him because his actions have shown you something different from what his words are telling you.
Going half way with counceling doesn't fix a thing. Continually breaking any bonds of trust is devestating to any thoughts or feelings of hope in the relationship.
Can it be turned around? That's hard to say. It depends on HIS actions now and YOUR ability/decisions as to whether or not to continue as a couple.
I wish you well!

sabby