I greatly appreciate the concern. I'm not going to date the guy and will tell him that. We're talking about one night of drinks together and possibly sex and that's all. This weekend I will be with a large group of friends all weekend long. I went to dinner with other friends earlier this week, and I spent time with a few friends last weekend too. This is no big deal. It's not how my husband and I started. I actually went on dates with my husband. This is purely just hanging out for one night. He is someone I've known for about 15 years.

Don't worry... I am not going to date anyone or fall into any kind of relationship. I plan on being single for a while yet. I cannot even imagine dating anyone right now. At the same time, you never know when you're going to meet the next person who could be suitable. For now I wish to simply develop my friendships more. This weekend will be a great opportunity to do so. I'm going to a concert Friday night with a group, then to an overnight gathering out of state with a far larger group on Sat. There will be plenty of women for me to bond with this weekend.