Dear T,
I kept wanting to ask you something about our evening session last Wednesday, but was afraid that what you would say in response would ruin my feeling of intense gratitude toward you. And my sense of being truly cared for.

But then I had a realization last night about it. How even if you did feel some of the things I was afraid you felt--like frustration or annoyance at having your night disrupted--that wouldn't mean you don't care or that you're tired of me or anything like that. So, I think now maybe we could talk about it, with me framing it that way toward you, and you maybe just sorta being like "yep!" Or even if you don't say your actual feelings on it. Because I think it suggests some sort of progress that I figured this out on my own.

Of course, part of me wants you to be like, "I was glad I could be there for you" or "It was no problem at all," but that's not realistic. Maybe some--even most--T's would say that, but not you!


Love,
LT