You absolutely can make your own decisions. You can choose what you do. I don’t think anyone has any kind of power to stop you from anything. It’s just that there is a connection between things you do and results you get. Men you end up with are always unstable party goers, boozing, and drugging kind. If that’s who you surround yourself with, that’s the kind of men you always end up with.

Of course it could be just casual sex with this one. Just make sure you are very careful as if he is sleeping around kind (if he plans one night stand he is that kind of guy)he could be passing STD around even with protection so think twice. But can we prevent you from meeting with this man or any other men. No.

People only advice because you seemed to want help with making better choices. But it’s ok if you don’t. We all live and learn.