I never said it's not normal to have doubts. The OP jumps in typically into relationships and gets into trouble this way each and every time, if you do not know the history. This is the first time she is expressing some amount of doubt since meeting this man. We've all cautioned her because of many red flags we all see in this man.

Have you read the entire thread? It doesn't seem like you have and like you're jumping in mid-story.