Hey sillyfish72, one of my close friends is in your situation right now, as in exactly the same situation. She ended the "affair" and remained just friends with the guy and it turned out better.

I might be harsh, but physical intimacy in kind of crucial in a relationship and perhaps he enjoys it with you. But hey, if he's fine with that, and you're fine with that, then so be it. ;]

But remember, there's another party involved - the GF. So yeah. ;]

Goodluck with your situation and I hope better things come along.

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