Dear BlueButterfly,

It is very nice to meet you.

I am so very, very sorry you are suffering.

Having never been married and therefore having never been divorced, I am the last person on earth to offer advice. It sounds like you are doing all the right things in the situation you describe.

It must be so difficult to not have people near to you who could offer you face to face encouragement, understanding, empathy and consolation. I guess that is a terrible understatement.

Wish I knew what to say to help ease your pain and distress.

Hopefully these Forums will provide some comfort to you. They have helped me a lot with my own isolation and loneliness.

Wish I knew what else to say.

My English is not very good so I cannot really express myself very well in that beautiful language. Hopefully other members here will see your post and respond to it with things that are really and truly helpful to you.

You deserve a life where you can have peace of mind and be able to experience joy of living!

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen