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I am part of a long line of only children & so is my daughter. I for one didn't want to be taking care of kids all my life as I had a career I was focused on that was demanding. It was an issue because my now EX wanted more kids. Looking back at him, I know exactly why I only wanted one & he was actually part of the reason too along with the fact that I had to have a c-section to have the one baby I had. Lots went into my decision. Compromise was having one child because before we got married I specifically said no kids. I think I was hoping he would decide I was not the right person to get married to. When issues come up, there may actually be deeper problems going on in the relationship. I didn't grasp it at the time but looking back it is now clear.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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