So Sorry this is happening! Please do not give up! While it would be nice if you were able to take care of your mother, i don't think it is fair that only you should get this responsability and not her son as well. You also have a right to your privacy as Well. i think it can be difficult in cases like this. Perhaps this is too much but a caring home may be a possibility? Give it a thought perhaps. Sorry if this offends you. As for your Husband, it seems like you have explained what you think about this to him so i am not sure if there is much else to add. Maybe apologize or try to make amends if you feel like he may have felt hurt. So Sorry things are being difficult. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @lovethesun, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!