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Originally Posted by leomama
That relationship is over. He claims he broke up with me twice. The first time I begged and pleaded to get back together with him. I’m not doing that again. He wants to make me responsible for the failure of the relationship even though the first time I left him cause he was still married and the second time because he was homeless, both times he lied to me. I’m just saying stonewalling is devastating , I’ve been on the receiving end. He refused to see a couples counselor when it was time, claimed it was a third party in the relationship, refused a therapeutic separation. That relationship caused me the loss of other relationships. It’s over.
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I'm really sorry, that sounds like a lot of horrible things to have gone through. I understand you about the stonewalling feeling really terrible too. I did have a bf too who stonewalled too or whatever it was he was doing, and I never figured out what the reason for it was. Like I was ignored a lot even if there wasn't an argument or anything, even if I just tried to talk to him about something that excited me, etc. And yes, it felt horrible.