You know what Nammu? Normally I'd agree with you about her being lonely and old and fearful, but this woman has lied about me to other family members resulting in epic fights that brought my husband and I to the brink of divorce twice. She's a manipulative back stabber. And she's so selfish, that when my husband first told her years ago that he'd gotten engaged...guess what......she cried! Not tears of joy, she was sad because now she would not have her son to support her day in and day out. I have no sympathy for her. Even in her old years she's still being selfish and trying to get her son back. I'm just trying to remain dignified and keep myself from unleashing a verbal explosion on her that would rock her world. Which is all the more reason this woman should not be under my roof.