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Originally Posted by Alive99
What do you find you feel with Mr Right then/what did your therapist explain about it?  (Yes I'm interested if you have anything to say about that)
What I do know is I've experienced more than one type of chemistry/attraction with guys but I've never really analysed this deeply. Even though it's an interesting topic. I don't know if Have Hope wants a long discussion on this though so I'm not going to add more on this now |
Attraction is important. But it’s not the only thing. Relationship will not survive. You need to feel many other things besides the butterflies: feel safe and secure and comfortable and know that he is a good person. If he is a jerk it’s not matter how hot and bothered you feel, relationship won’t last or won’t be healthy