To the mods: This has nothing to do with anyone on PC.

Sometimes, the matter that has to be with human relations is so hard. Even when you might talk with another person and you both could have the same good intentions to fix things up, there are so many factors that play a role. We are all so unique and have experienced the same situation in such a different way that it takes a world to even get positions a little closer.
The hurt pride, the affronts, feelings...could lead us to a point in which even empathic people may find difficult to even take into account that the other person is not wrong or want to damage you or have bad intentions or (s)he is like this or that but that (s)he is only having a different understanding of the same facts.

I want to break this circle. I want to be unattached of my pride, my Ego, my remorse towards some people very close to me. I want to consider their point of view so much that it makes me possible to get out of myself and see things through their eyes.
I think that if there’s someone who can change things, we have to begin to make changes ourselves in the first place.

I don’t know. How do you see it? Am I being very naive?