It’s anonymous forum so it’s not like she talked to relatives or something. I don’t remember why was ED brought up but maybe it was in a context, the context is the guy smokes pot every single day spending hundreds on it and does coke. I am not surprised he has issues in romance department. It’s a given. Perhaps his ED wasn’t brought up not to mock him but to mention how his drug abuse causes medical issues.

I do agree that chemistry and sparks aren’t love. I’ve been around the block. Loud music, all kind of substances, hormones, music, dancing, bar atmosphere makes people feel all kind of things. Could be confusing. Eventually reality sinks in.