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May 24, 2021, 08:55 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,079
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Originally Posted by divine1966
Feeling all kind of desires and sparks towards all kind of people (including exes) while going through break ups/ divorces is not uncommon. Heightened intense stress could cause all kind of crazy emotions. That’s why it’s recommended to stay away from exes and soon to be exes and potential love interests while emotions are so raw. That’s how all kind of troubles happen.
Is it easy? No. But unless one wants more drama and another disaster, it’s really better to stir away from such things.
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Exactly!!!! Makes people less willing to sympathize when the same result happens again because this time it is a known choice to put the drama & disaster back in ones life.
It is not easy to make wise choices when decisions are based on emotion rather than logic.
Guess I was lucky. By the time I left my husband I hated him & there never had been real "love" in the marriage so walking away was so easy. I have resolved the hate over the years but I still don't like him & all the stupid things he has done that are still screwing up aspects of my life (financially) even after the divorce. No emotions existed toward him except negative ones. Makes life simple to walk away from a marriage like that
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