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Old May 25, 2021, 05:17 AM
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Originally Posted by Mountaindewed View Post
Apparently 28 year olds shouldn’t really be shopping at stores like Hollister and wearing hoodies with the logos on them. I read that wearing any logo is tacky and like your an advertisement billboard. I googled 30 year old men styles and they are like button up dress shirts and khakis. Maybe people think I’m under 21 not just because I look young but because I’m wearing glow in the dark hoodies with huge logos on the front and 11’5 length shorts. I have a few SpongeBob shirts too. I’ve had therapists before give me problems about the way I dress. Kohl’s had some button casual dress shirts on clearance. I may go back tomorrow. I think North Face is ok. There’s some guy on SNL who sometimes wears the exact NF hoodie I have and he’s my age.

My old therapist never said anything specifically besides that I dressed young but I could tell she didn’t like my spongeBob shirts and thought they were immature. We talked sometimes about dressing older. When I mentioned one time about out sizing a lot of men’s shirts and feeling goofy shopping in the boys department she mentioned shopping online in the boys department.
I’ll tell you what, none of the men in their thirties I know ever wear button downs and khakis! But every man I know is a blue collar man. Dusty jeans, boots, and fishing/mechanic/tool tees. Plus a baseball style hat.

I think you just need to dress how you’re comfortable. I have two Harry Potter ravenclaw tee shirts I’m 34 year old woman. I wear lots of band tee shirts too, which men in my life wear too.
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