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Old May 25, 2021, 06:49 AM
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Originally Posted by RollercoasterLover View Post
I wish you the best. I hope both you and your husband have success in therapy.

Also, thank you for opening your discussion about the end of relationships. Its never easy to open yourself up to points of view that are difficult to hear. Its helped to reinforce for me that our choices are our own and the outcome of those choices are also only our own.
Thank you.

I had NO idea it would be THIS hard to leave him and to separate from him. There's something still very powerful between us that is undeniable, and I am just going with my feelings right now. There is no logic to it, but I am also watching out for myself, and I know what needs to happen in order for me to truly be with him again. He needs therapy and serious behavioral changes.

And yes, I am responsible for my own choices and decisions, as well as the outcomes of those decisions. Sometimes we make poor choices, and sometimes those decisions turn out for the best.
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