i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters about being a matter of age and experience perhaps. i don't think that what you're writing is naive at all, in fact i think that is something wise and wonderful that we should remember more often, Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @AzulOscuro, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!