Raz,
Did he ever say he dosen't love you? My DW is not a loving, cuddly person person either, I am. She has been this way for 35 years. I married her and I knew she was that way. Ha, silly me, I thought I could change her....NOPE. No change in 35 years. She is a good lover. Takes a while to get her going but, when she does....wow. I tell her when it has been a long time to look out because I'm about ready to jump ya. She is a good sport about it and I have come to accept that this is the way she is.

If your husband loves you then perhaps you should learn to accept him the way he is. There was something that attracted you to him. Try to recapture that.

Good luck,