Yes i know, i think 'falling in love' over the internet is a load of %#@&#!. yes he is unstable in the sense that he is depressed and has never had psychotherapy about his abuse as a child. but i feel like he just needs to think someone cares for the time being. it is ridiculous but i just feel so pressured to say it for his safety. (btw, i have no feelings whatsoever for him)