@bpforever1, if it is of any help, in my opinion, the picture seems pretty good.

Said that, and I don’t want you to interpret as if I were pouring water in the wine. Only a little thing to consider. I’m sure you are more experienced than me at dating because of my social anxiety, but nonetheless, I wanted to make you consider a little thing.
It’s only my opinion, ok. Your guy doesn’t seem to have any problem of money. He has a job. He’s not unemployed or comes from a country where he’s finding difficulties to win a living.
He should paid something. Even when you insist on him not doing it. At least, at the beginning of the relation. I say it, only for your be more at ease. The details are important.
I’m not gonna let you pay for all, as much as you insist.
You indeed, told in a recent post that you have your economic difficulties.

I’m only saying it for your safety. Let him pay sometimes.