Sunny,

I am glad you still got to enjoy the day with your daughter. You husband could have done something with her to give you a homemade card, she isn't too young to know what a gift is. But it isn't so much the gift, as it is the appreciation your husband should show himself and through your daughter.
Being a good mom is so hard, and just a thank you and an acknowledgment, would go a long way.
Just a question, does he do anything for his mother?

My husband's brother's family don't do anything either for their mom either, and now that the kids have their own families, I hear they don't show the appreciation either to their wifes. My husband helps our kids celebrate and we don't even have a good marriage.