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Whatever the reason is, is irrelivent to finding YOUR SOLUTION to the problem. You know the problem "sabotaging your vacation plans" & yes there are sick people in this world(family or otherwise) who want to control other peoples lives for various reasons.
Learn who the people are & don't communicate information to them that they can ever use. Keep them out of the information loop. Sometimes things happen once & we file it into our brain. Things happen twice I it becomes a pattern we see & we put together how we are going to react from then on.
No one forces you to tell her your personal vacation plans. Maybe wise to keep personal plans personal. The more we share, the more crazy people/family members can use for their own benefit especially if they have a track record of doing it already.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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