I'm sorry you are having so much difficulty with this. Getting to sleep, as well as staying asleep, has been a problem for me as well. I take 25 mg. of Trazadone before bed. (I'm also on 1.5 mg of Clonazepam.) The Trazadone's not a cure for my sleep-related problems, but it helps. I've tried increasing to 50 mg. a couple of times. But it made me groggy the whole of the following day. So I cut back to 25 mg. again. I hope you are able to find something that will work for you as well. Best wishes...