Thank you, both of you. I feel a little better tonight, I agree I’m probably going to have to set a contact schedule after I move and see how it goes. There’s lots to work on, I feel I might have to make a self development type of plan.
@BethRags - that’s a good point. I don’t always find it easy to parse it out, since I guess my automatic reaction is to take the words at face value, but I can totally see what you mean about it being more about them.
There is a possibility I could end up being closer to my family after I move, it’s just the fact I find it hard to attach to others (with a few exceptions) that’s been bothering me. If I was going to be strongly attached to anyone, you’d think it would be the people I’ve spent literally decades with. Mad, isn’t it?