Hi katie and all.
i want to say first of all katie, i am so very very sorry for you.
have you tried to get him to a VERY highly recomended pshyc??
the one we are seeing is TOP notch.
i found out he is borderline Bi polar and he has Narc tendancies but is not full fledged, and he is for sure OCD wich a lot of cops are.
anyway, he is going to the counselor and she set him straight and things are going GOOD!!! i am so happy and only wish you katie could be this happy.
maybe it will be short lived but, i feel we are meant to be together, and life for me has ALWAYS been a struggle and challenge and the man i am married to is the same.
well worth it for sure becouse the effort he is putting into US is very big.
i only hope that others can find a VERY qualified professional that is worth their effort of helping others.
thank you for all your advice,
when i read the book that was recommended i cried.
becouse first.
i know that my hubby is not a shell of a human being.
he does care about others and he does have compassion and he is giving and caring.
right now he is confused but, he also is being guided right.