Many people just want children. It’s quite normal. Same as Beth I am way past having children plus I really can’t, but it doesn’t mean I don’t want to. I am totally enamored with every child I see. I frankly can’t wait to be a grandmother and hope for it in the next few years. I feel like it’s a natural desire and there’s nothing in the world that compares to having children.
Perhaps if she wants more children and you don’t, you can go separate ways so she can find a man to have more kids with. Unfortunately that means you’ll only see your kid 50%. Or perhaps she could be convinced to wait for a year until your son is a bit older.
But I urge you to stop looking at a normal desire to have children as some kind of abnormal pathology. No need for that.
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