Sorry everybody but I'm in total agreement with IG. Generally speaking, the outside package is what people look at first. If you don't fit the other person's test of what they deem attractive, then they don't even approach you to get to know what might be a really wonderful person on the inside. Yes, there are exceptions but looks are the first impression. That's just the way society is. You can't get to 2nd base, if you don't even get to 1st.