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Originally Posted by leomama
Well it didn’t work out because I walked away from him in 2019, 2 years after I evicted his stuff from my apartment.
I regret my behavior however I also understand it .
A friend of mine said if he truly loved me he’d give me closure .
He hasn’t done that.
He implied I’m the narcissist however I’m not the one denying him closure in 2021.
I last had communication with him by text in April or last month. I deleted the message. I wish I hadn’t. It wasn’t nice. It was blaming me for the failure of the relationship. Today I could eat crow and say “fine it’s all my fault, so can we fix this?”
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Relationship didn’t work out because he is unreliable, dishonest and too unstable for healthy relationship. You said he isn’t answering your phone calls. You can’t make people be with you or talk to you if they don’t want to. And honestly if you the one who ended a relationship, why do you expect him to provide you with closure. Was it he who ended it? If not it’s not his job to provide closure
Relationship ended two years ago. I’d work with a therapist on getting to the bottom of attraction to all these unavailable men who don’t treat you right and your difficulty letting it go.