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Old Jun 02, 2021, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Alive99 View Post
Hey. Sounds like you have strong affection for your boyfriend but no passionate, intense romantic chemistry or "manic, magic" happiness. Love is defined as deep affection and attachment so I would say that based on your words you do feel love for him but it's more the long-term kind of love maybe. Also, maybe he has no idea you'd like to be with him more often, and maybe that's why he doesn't ask to spend more time together. Or maybe he really is just waiting for you to openly want to spend more time with him. Who knows. You definitely should let him know though that you'd love to see him more often.



PS: I personally have no idea if we should feel the kind of passionate love. I have no idea if it can ever last longer than a few months or a year or whatever it does for most people. Some people claim it can last much longer. I don't know the trick to that.
Yes, i think your thoughts about him could be true. Maybe he is waiting for me to say it, or, this is more possible, he doesnt know that i need more time. Because he cant read minds, and i never said this to him because at first i diddnt want to be seen as clingy.
I will try, set this goal for myself and tell him for sure...and see what he says.
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