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Originally Posted by leomama
He claims to have ended it and yes I reached out to my old therapist. Also, I didn’t understand the attachment my boyfriend has to his mother’s house right off the bat. They would be fine if I moved in there so I wouldn’t say he’s unavailable or that he mistreats me. That was more my ex fiancé at the time I left as he was living in a shelter .
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You said your boyfriend isn’t proposing or making any plans to marry. It sounded like you want to be married but he isn’t taking any steps towards commitment. In that sense he isn’t available. He might be ok if you move there, but he isn’t proposing. Also drinking in access makes people unavailable. Any time one is not “with it” they are unavailable. I am glad he isn’t treating poorly