Overall Bob 1960 it seems like this is entirely too much stress and work for someone who is just a roommate. Even a friend. You are not somebody’s gatekeeper. You are not responsible for somebody else’s bad choices. If this is affecting your health especially get out. Either give her notice to move out or move out yourself.
Whoops I just saw that you said she’s moving out in 12 days.
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