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Jun 03, 2021, 09:46 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,096
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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
It happened the same to me. I built a wall around me and I’m sure people notice it and felt uncomfortable with.
I would have also felt very uncomfortable with a person like me lol!
People have already enough things running on their lives, we can’t ask them for doing this big effort that is to break a wall of bricks to reach out to us.
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Interesting because the first psychologist I had 3 years after moving here said a few years later when she was retiring that when I first came to her I had a thick wall built that she thought she would never get through. I also had 2 intense years of DBT with another wonderful psychologist & when my first psychologist retired she was amazed & pleased at the actual progress I made. It just kept getting better as I continued to see my DBT psychologist as my private T. I actually haven't seen her for therapy in over a year but she is always there when I need someone totally impartial to discuss things with. They both were amazed at the total healing that was accomplished. I am sure she would be amazed at how I have handled all the things that have happened since last seeing her. Walls can definitely come down. I am a living example of that
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